Who to tell about relationships, bank account and other problems to and whom not.

Learn these important things in a relationship: Who to tell about relationships, bank account and other problems to and whom not.

A Sundarkand episode of Ramayana which is quite famous, in this episode, in Ashok Vatika, Mother Sita met and after this Hanuman came to know about Lord Shri Ram's pain and saw that after Sita's abduction, Ram is going through immense pain, even after this he does not understand whom to tell his pain.

Tulsidas ji wrote Ram's pain in the form of a quatrain-

"If you tell, the sorrow will be reduced to some extent.

Who should I tell, no one knows this.

Its interpretation is that by sharing, the sorrow is reduced to some extent, but no one knows with whom to share one's sorrow.

On the other hand, Rahim said that-

"Rahim, keep your sorrow in your heart. All the people are proud on hearing it, but no one shares it.

He is ready to say that one should keep the pain of one's heart in the heart only. People will laugh at you after hearing it, no one will come to help.

Tulsi wants to say that you should share your feelings with someone and give peace to your mind, on the contrary Rahim says that you should not share your sorrow with anyone.

Relationships break when the confidant reveals his secrets.

Famous writer Khalil Gibran said that 'If it ever happens that you share your secrets with someone or you share your feelings with someone, then definitely it will have to come in front of everyone because Khalil has written that if the secrets of your mind are revealed to the winds, then that secret will reach the trees as well. The winds cannot be blamed for this because they did the same thing that you did, i.e. revealed the secret.'

Disadvantage of sharing your secrets.

Every person has some personal secrets and when these personal matters reach people, it was neither necessary nor beneficial for them to reach them, but whenever this happens, the person who reveals it gets an image of a partner, friend or colleague who breaks trust. At such times, their mutual relationship or friendship also gets spoiled.

Intrapersonal, self communication is needed.

Communication expert Kewal J. Kumar in 'Mass Communication in India' told that communication is one of the basic needs of a human being like food, clothing and shelter.

Things that should not be told to strangers.

Personal secrets,

Family problems,

Health problems,

Relationship issues,

Financial status,

Bank account details,

Fears and weaknesses,

Self reflection,

Dreams and goals,

Any weakness or bad thing of the partner.

Psychology says that unless such a thing becomes a burden on your heart and mind, it is better to keep it a secret and it is also natural to keep it.

 Whom can you share.

Do not share your personal secrets with anyone in normal circumstances and you can share your dreams and goals with anyone but your partner.

Share your financial status only with close family and bank.

Talk about family problems with family members or those who are affected by that problem.

Talk about health problems with doctor and family members who are affected. You can also share with friend and office boss.

Do not share your fears and weaknesses with anyone in normal circumstances, you can share with a counselor or psychiatrist.

Talk about relationship issues only with your romantic partner in normal circumstances, apart from this, it is also okay to share with a counselor or psychiatrist.